Abstinence


What Is It?

Abstinence is not having sex. A person who decides to practice abstinence has decided not to have sex.

How Does It Work?

If two people don't have sex, then sperm can't fertilize an egg and
there's no possibility of a pregnancy. Some forms of birth control
depend on barriers that prevent the sperm from reaching the egg (such as
condoms or diaphragms). Others interfere with the menstrual cycle (as
birth control pills do). With abstinence, no barriers or pills are
necessary because the person is not having sex.

You don't have to be a virgin to practice abstinence. Sometimes people who have been having sex decide not to continue having sex. Even if a person has been having sex, he or she can still choose abstinence to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) in the future.
How Well Does It Work?

Abstinence is 100% effective in preventing pregnancy. Although many birth control methods can have high rates of success if used properly, they can fail occasionally. Practicing abstinence ensures that a girl won't become pregnant because there's no opportunity for sperm to fertilize an egg.
Protection Against STDs



Abstinence protects people against STDs. Some STDs spread through
oral-genital sex, anal sex, or even intimate skin-to-skin contact
without actual penetration (genital warts and herpes can be spread this
way). So only avoiding all types of intimate genital contact can prevent
STDs. Avoiding all types of intimate genital contact — including anal
and oral sex — is complete abstinence.

Only complete and consistent abstinence can totally prevent pregnancy
and protect against STDs. Because a person does not have any type of
intimate sexual contact when he or she practices complete abstinence,
there is no risk of passing on a sexually transmitted infection.

Consistent abstinence means that someone practices abstinence all the time. Having sex even once means that the person risks getting an infection.

Abstinence does not prevent AIDS, hepatitis B, and hepatitis C
infections that come from nonsexual activities like using contaminated
needles for doing drugs, tattooing, or taking steroids.

How Do You Do It?



Not having sex may seem easy because it's not doing
anything. But peer pressure and things you see on TV and in the movies
can make the decision to practice abstinence more difficult.

If it seems like everybody else is having sex, some people may feel
they have to do it, too, just to be accepted. Don't let kidding or
pressure from friends, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, or even the media push
you into something that's not right for you. The truth is that most
teens are not having sex.

A couple can still have a relationship without having sex. If you've
made a decision not to have sex, it's an important personal choice and
the people who care about you should respect that.

You may have questions about making this choice or about other
methods of birth control. Your doctor or nurse — or an adult you trust,
such as a parent, teacher, or counselor — can help provide some answers.